Start at a scale that suits you
Look for an activity near home or work. A manageable journey and realistic time make returning easier. Combine a chance to chat with an interest-led activity: sport, culture, volunteering or a language.
You don’t need your whole life story ready
A couple of questions about someone's neighbourhood, work or a Paris discovery can start a conversation. Leave room to listen. If you enjoy talking, a specific coffee or future outing is easier to act on than “see you sometime”.
Finding a first club event
Thursday after-work drinks may suit an evening after work. International nights offer another starting point if you prefer English. Check the age and language on the card: the 20s and 30s,40s events are separate.
Prepare your first visit
Read Going to an event alone and Meeting people outside work. If cost is your main concern, our budget guide explains what free entry actually covers.
